WHEN YOU’RE NOT AT YOUR BEST

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It’s normal when we sometimes not feel at our best but it becomes scary when we make the feeling the end point.

In this context, that you are not at your best means that you feel down about yourself but in the real sense you want more. How to achieve the ‘more’ is where the challenge comes.
Life has a lot of challenges. Constantly thinking of what is wrong will not solve the problem. Instead, accept the challenge and understand where you are.

When you’re not at your best is actually the right time to evaluate yourself and tackle the reason the feelings are coming. Our relationships, happenings, bills, works, opinions from people and more are capable of putting us down when going wrong. Just Calm down and take a break from stressful thoughts. Try not to continue in the thoughts that shouldn’t be allowed in your mind.
‘’You have power over your mind, not outside events, realize this and you will find strength’’ Marcus Aurelius said.

See yourself as someone under the process to the best, cherish the phase and learn from it. It’s very difficult when we have to learn from something that hurts us but more difficult to live in regrets.

Our challenges from any angle are not meant to be the distraction from other things, other things are meant to distract us from the challenges. Challenges are only meant to help us learn.

I don’t know what might be wrong with you now that’s making you have self-doubt. May be something got wrong somewhere, you made a mistake or something happened and since then you’ve not being able to be at your best, tell it to God.

I want to tell you that when you are not at your best is when your best needs you. People need to see you at your best to bring out the best in them.









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